Alex Kochno: When Misogyny Goes Wrong, So Very Very Wrong April 17, 2008

Filed under: Feminism — wendy @ 10:32 pm

Most of the time when I visit Feministing, I leave the site feeling a little gloomy. Today? I felt like I could touch the sky!

It all started when this hate mail was posted:

“Men are better than women look at the comparison in IQ men are scientifically proven to have a higher IQ by roughly 5 points, or 5% you cannot dispute science sorry and if you want a much better website than your sh–ty one you might want to go to [redacted]. I think you would gain a lot more knowledge from that website and you might learn about the truth that way you would not be so stupid and ignorant you stupid c–ts.”

If you couldn’t tell by the run-on sentences, the misogynist who sent the nasty e-mail isn’t the smartest cookie. Seems as though he sent it from his school email address. Whoops! I can’t “scientifically prove” it, but that seems like a stupid move. So… who sent the e-mail?
Alex Kochno sent the e-mail. Alex Kochno believes “men are better than women” and that women are “ignorant stupid c–ts.” Alex Kochno used to be the relations officer (yes, public relations) of the Southern Illinois University College Republicans, but he’s not anymore.

After Feministing posted Kochno’s information online (by the way: here’s his Facebook & Myspace — have fun with it), many of us “stupid c–ts” sent complaints to SIU-C. The Secretary for the College Republicans at SIU-C quickly logged on to Feministing to apologize for what Kochno had done. Kochno’s excuse for sending the e-mail was that he was “rather drunk.”

Well, the e-mail was sent at around 7:00 A.M. Does Alex Kochno have a drinking problem as well? I don’t know many college students who get so drunk before school that they can’t even remember the hate-filled e-mails they’re sending out. And if drinking alcohol brings out the misogynist in Alex Kochno, what if he were to, say, get drunk and harm a woman in real life? Would his excuse for that be that he was “rather drunk” too? Hmm…

I’m not sure, but if you’re an employer (or woman thinking about going out on a date with this guy) that’s Googling Alex Kochno right now, you might want to be asking yourself those questions.

In the end, Kochno posted this insincere apology:

“I would like to take this time to apologize for my behavior earlier this morning. My angry words do not represent my view points towards the female population as a whole. I have notified the College Republicans that I am resigning my position effective immediately.”

Is he really sorry? Of course not, even in his apology he’s still letting us know that he believes some women are “stupid c–ts.” Will he ever learn to love and respect women? I honestly don’t think so. But the misogynist had to tuck his tail between his legs on a feminist site, how sweet is that?

Alex Kochno, if you’re reading this: please seek counseling to work out those issues you have with women and never try to hide behind your computer again. Your mother, a woman (in case you forgot), was kind enough to push you out of her “stupid c–t” and give life to you — it’s least you could.

 
 

New Lykke Li Video: I’m Good, I’m Gone April 16, 2008

Filed under: music, videos — betty @ 6:56 pm

Best female pop album of the year confirmed. Lykke Li rocks my world.

 
 

Mixtape Tuesday - Betty’s First Quarter Faves April 15, 2008

Filed under: betty is obsessed, mix, music — betty @ 10:13 am

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Just like Rob in High Fidelity, I have become obsessive about lists. I nurture my Favorite Albums of 2008 list just as I would a precious houseplant or a child. I thought you might enjoy a sampler of my favorite songs on my top 10 albums. I’ll probably also do another one soon with my favorites in the 11-20 range because it’s not that the albums taking those slots don’t have amazing songs, it’s just that they aren’t quite as consistent as the top ten. Anyway - enjoy!

1. Ladyhawk - Night You’re Beautiful (from the album Shots)

2. The Helio Sequence - Keep Your Eyes Ahead (from the album Keep Your Eyes Ahead)

3. Liam Finn - Second Chance ( from the album I’ll Be Lightning)

4. Have a Nice Life - Hunter (from the album Deathconsciousness)

5. Baltic Fleet - Castellon Theme (from the album Baltic Fleet)

6. Spiritualized - Baby I’m Just A Fool (from the album Songs in A&E)

7. The LK - Yellow Ribbons (from the album Vs the Snow)

8. Pete and the Pirates - Come on Feet (from the album Little Death)

9. The Raveonettes - Aly, Walk With Me (from the album Lust Lust Lust)

10. Why? - The Hollows (from the album Alopecia)

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Milo & Otis + Sigur Rós = Awesome

Filed under: 80s, music, videos — betty @ 8:33 am

 

 
 

Rachel Dratch Needs Work And She Deserves To Work, So Why Isn’t She Working? April 7, 2008

Filed under: Comedy — wendy @ 1:10 pm

rachel_dratch_30_rock.jpgRachel Dratch left Saturday Night Live two years ago and then she was replaced on 30 Rock. The comedian is now working on, uh, dur

“Maybe you can tell me,” Dratch told NY Mag at a Smart People screening on March 31. “I know you’re supposed to come up with fake stuff you’re doing. But honestly, I’m not doing much.”

Of the downtime since SNL, Dratch said: “It’s starting to get old. I’m starting to go crazy. I’m ready for a job.”

Being excluded from Vanity Fair’s recent “Queens of Comedy” issue didn’t help matters either. “Dude, that was a dark day,” she recalled. “I was like, ‘Oh, there’s everyone I worked with’.”

Dratch, who provided me with many laughs as Debbie Downer on SNL and Spencer’s girlfriend on The King Of Queens, isn’t picky about her next gig either.

“I’d work in a black-box theater company at this point,” she said. “I’d work with George W.

 
 

Harmony Korine Was Doing Exactly What We Thought He Was Doing In Paris

Filed under: Drugs, Film — wendy @ 12:35 pm

Indie filmmaker Harmony Korine (Gummo, Julien Donkey-Boy) kept his fans waiting for years, but his latest movie Mister Lonely is finally scheduled for a U.S. release on May 2. So what exactly was Korine doing to fill the time when he moved to Paris a few years ago?

The auteur tells the Spring issue of Bomb Magazine:

“I was down on my luck. I lived in a tiny apartment next door to a pimp who was obsessed with [Holocaust survivor] Primo Levi. I couldn’t speak the language and I had no friends.

“I was doing many drugs and my teeth began to fall out … My best friend at the time was an old hag who had been sent to prison for shooting her husband.”

Yep. That sounds about right.

[via Page Six]

 
 

Mixtape Tuesday Is Back - No Joke! April 1, 2008

Filed under: mix, music — betty @ 7:16 am

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Happy April Fools! I think I speak for the both of us when I say - we suck. We suck and we know it. But March failed so hard this year. If it didn’t suck for you, I’d be willing to bet it sucked for someone you know. So today begins a new month and to celebrate I bring you a new a mix full of warm and fuzzy songs. I could have been a tool and made this a fake mix filled with Sir Mix-a-Lot or some shit, but I like you more than that, so rest assured that the songs below are real. Really awesome, might I add.

Arms - Kids Aflame (myspace)

Gentle Touch - Once You Used To (myspace)

The Limes - Left Hand Cycles (myspace)

Esser - I Love You (myspace)

A Faulty Chromosome - This Is Far From A Belle Epoque (download their full album for free from their myspace)

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